Gurkha Women: The Stories of the spouse of the Gurkha Warriors

Sunil Raj Dhakal
Sunil Raj Dhakal November 29, 2023
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Since the early 19th century, the reputation of Gurkha warriors has echoed globally. Their tales of valor resonated widely during their collaboration with the British in the War. For a considerable period, their courageous exploits were widely shared and discussed. However, what about their significant others? Were the women who nurtured them and their spouses left without stories of their own?

This question haunted Suzana Shirish, a self-taught artist who delved into the lives of Gurkha women. She empathetically listened to their experiences during both sorrowful and joyous moments, navigating through the challenges of having husbands and children engaged in distant conflicts. The culmination of her research is showcased in a compelling exhibition taking place at the Nepal Art Council from November 25th to 29th. The curation of this exhibition is skillfully handled by Sujaan Shrestha and Nikash Yonjan.

At the program’s inauguration, Ms. Bhawani Rana, an entrepreneur and Chairperson of Sneha Group, shared her thoughts, recognizing the Gurkha woman’s story as truly inspiring. The exhibition captures their contributions, hardships, and experiences, showcasing the inherent strength of women. Despite their significant sacrifices, they often don’t receive the due credit they deserve.

Similarly, Sagar Shamsher Rana, the acting president of Nepal Art Council, shared a nostalgic sentiment, reflecting on his grandfather, Babar Shamsher’s involvement in the 1st World War. As the youngest among his siblings, he fondly recalled engaging in singing and dancing sessions with Gurkhas during his upbringing.

Mr. Rajan Kandel, the Founder CEO of a British college, conveyed that while he had heard much about Gurkha soldiers, the stories of their wives remained unheard. During the program, he remarked, “Being a Gurkha wife involves a great deal of sacrifice, and the boys she nurtured often become future soldiers.” Reflecting on his time in the UK, he fondly recalled the warm reception he received from Gurkha families, who generously offered him free meals and drinks. He had the opportunity to meet many Gurkhas in the UK, and despite the challenges they faced, they never complained about their lives. At the exhibition, Suzane has skillfully portrayed these unseen heroes.

During the program’s inauguration, Mr. Rob Fenn, the British Ambassador to Nepal, shared that while he is not a military person, he has closely collaborated with the military. He acknowledged that the effectiveness of the fighting men and women of the British armies is enhanced by their strong family backgrounds. Mr. Fenn uplifted the atmosphere with a quote praising the Gurkha warriors: “Bravest of the brave, most generous of the generous; never had a country more faithful people than you.”

He also emphasized the significant responsibilities that come with being the spouse of a formidable individual, stating, “In being the wife of mighty men, they undertake enormous responsibilities.” Expressing keen interest, he conveyed his eagerness to explore the exhibition.

The exhibition is thoughtfully curated, beautifully showcasing the tales of women toiling in the village, their traditional attire, the utensils they use, and the poignant letters sent by their husbands from distant lands where they were engaged in combat. The artistic presentation adds a meaningful touch to these narratives.

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